10 Surefire Dating Tips For Men


Dating is about two people coming together to get to know one another and find out whether they are compatible. However, it can be a daunting task for some. For those, all that is needed is for someone to remind and show them the right way. By following some basic dating rules, awkward and embarrassing situations are less likely to happen, leading to more fulfilling dates as a whole.

These are the top ten surefire dating tips for men:



1. Establish Good Eye Contact

Strong eye contact assumes a basic part in fruitful date. This shows regard for the other individual and where your consideration is for the night. Be that as it may, never gaze at your date. It’s impolite and it demonstrates that all you think about is the other individual’s physical appearance.

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2. Listen

No matter how strong the desire is to talk, be prepared to listen over everything else. Listening shows interest and the ability to compromise. Keep your date interested but never hoard the discussion. Rather, listen deliberately for conversational prompts and talk when suitable. Never interrupt them. Remembering things that she told you will impress her even more.

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3. Be Prepared to Pay

There are no rules written in stone with regard to who picks up the check at the end of a dinner date. On the other hand, gentlemen ought to still be arranged to pay for at any rate the first date. Having no expectations of paying and letting it show when the check arrives is not likely to impress. Both parties should at least attempt to pay for the entire meal, and if neither side relents, splitting the costs is a decent trade off.

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4. Be Punctual

Being late for a date, no matter what the excuse it almost guarantees a shaky start to a relationship. So, plan ahead to arrive early or be on time. Anything less shows poor time management skills and a lack of respect for your date; neither of which is appealing nor acceptable.

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5. Compliment

Always be courteous and compliment if your date has made effort to look nice for you. Lay all your negative comments to rest.

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6. Excessive Smoking

Smoking excessively during a date is bad,  unless your date likewise appreciates one. In general, smoking in a restaurant will do nothing for your image and shows insensitive disregard for others.

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7. Get a Respectable Job

Women want a man who has some ambition in life. If possible try and look like you have a career. Be ready with information on work and have some idea of your future plans because women will ask questions about your prospects.

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8. Dress well.

In this day and age, there is truly no reason for looking shabby. Dressing ineffectively indicates laziness and will do nothing to make you look great. Besides, it demonstrates an absence of appreciation for your date, who has more than likely attempted to dress pleasantly. Check out my men’s fashion guide here.

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9. Sort out your Hygiene and Styling.

Go down to the barbers and clean up your hair, getting it styled if possible. Men are so often criticized for smelling bad. Make sure you are clean-shaven, freshly showered and smell nice (apply deodorant and perfume/cologne). Women appreciate it.

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10. Read up on manners, courtesy and chivalry.

A woman likes being treated with respect. Lose the coarse language, the swear words, the impoliteness and the laziness. Learn to eat like a gentleman. Know how to hold an entryway open for a lady, let her go first and help her with her seat.  Listen to what she says but have opinions of your own too.  Demonstrate respect and manners at every step and you’ll be on the right path.

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1 Comment

  1. Vlad Partners says: Reply

    I find my wife on a dating site, i think it is the most popular place where you can find your girlfriend

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